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posted 12/19/2012
PLAYERS CODE:
• Play the game for the game’s sake.
• Be generous when you win.
• Be graceful when you lose.
• Be fair always no matter what the cost.
• Obey the laws of the game.
• Work for the good of your team.
• Accept the decisions of the officials with good grace.
• Believe in the honesty of your opponents.
• Conduct yourself with honor and dignity.
PLAYERS RIGHTS:
• The right to decide when to participate in soccer.
• The right to play in every game. At younger ages, every child should have an
opportunity to play at least 50% of every game. No child should have to stand
and watch at practice.
• The right to be taught the fundamentals of soccer.
• The right to participate in a safe and healthy environment.
• The right to play as a child and enjoy participation in the sport.
PARENT’S ROLE:
• Provide transportation to and from all practices and games ensuring that the player
is prompt not only in arriving but also his/her departure.
• Stay and watch practices, as well as, games and lend the young players your support
in a positive manner. Do not point out their mistakes, leave that up to the coach, but
dwell on their accomplishments, as well as, their efforts.
• If unable to attend the practice or game encourage your child not to talk to or leave
with strangers.
• Ensure your child brings equipment to and from all soccer games and practices when
appropriate.
• Be available to kick the ball around with your child when you are invited to do so.
• Avoid material rewards. Build an attitude of “the rewards lie in the fun of being able
to play” and team accomplishments.
• Be a good listener. Make them feel important and let them know that they are
contributing to a team effort.
• Be positive. Never criticize.
• ALLOW YOUR CHILD TO BE A CHILD.
GUIDES TO SOCCER PARENTHOOD:
• In competition, someone always loses. If you win, do it gracefully, not boastfully.
• If you lose, do not allow your child to become negative.
• Too much competition, too soon, can slow down a child’s progress in skill
development.
• Make fun and technique development your first priority.
• Your child’s coach will need all the support and help you can offer. Please, make
yourself available and volunteer all the time you can spare.
• Disagreements with the coach or officials do not belong on the public soccer field.
• Questions, input, and positive suggestions should be voiced to the coach and/or
League official in an adult atmosphere (the youth player should not be present).
• The overall purpose is to enjoy the game and the opportunity to be with your child
on the field of play.
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